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‎”Boys are told from a young age that whatever they do will be excused under the “boys will be boys” mantra, and that “boys will be boys” mentality leads to what I call the “BOILING FROG” problem of women’s sexual boundaries. I call it that because if you put a frog into a pot of boiling water, it will jump right out, but if you put a frog into a pot of room-temperature water and slowly heat it to a boil, the frog will acclimate as it heats and never jump out, eventually boiling to death. Similarly, when we learn as young girls to tolerate “low-level” boundary violations like the ones we often are forced to suffer in silence at school, at home and on the street – bra-snapping, boob-grabbing, ass pinching, catcalling, dick flashing “all in good fun” relentless violations that adults and authorities routinely ignore – it makes it harder for us to notice when even greater boundaries are being violated, eventually leading to the reality that many women who are raped just freeze and fall silent, because that’s what they’ve been taught to do over and over since day one. You tell me what’s more infantilizing: repeatedly letting boys (and grown men) off the hook for their behavior because “boys will be boys” and we can’t ever expect any differently, or creating a consent standard in which all partners take active responsibility for their partner’s safety, and which acknowledges the truly diseased sexual culture we’re soaking in every day. The (nonexistent) terrible, horrible, no good, very bad consequences of enthusiastic consent - Jaclyn Friedman (via queerintersectional)
wastedxdreams: SCREENCAP MEME: CHAIR [6/12]→ FULL BODY SHOT(S)

wastedxdreams:

SCREENCAP MEME: CHAIR [6/12]→ FULL BODY SHOT(S)


tiesunbreakable:

Can we please take a moment and notice how Chuck is what his father never was: a dad. A dad that praises his kid for the simplest of things, that loves him and that is not afraid to show it, a dad that will protect and provide for him no matter what.

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Chuck Bass and his son Henry. 

ggwriters: Alex and Ed in US Weekly magazine (x) So many beautiful things about this photo…

ggwriters:

Alex and Ed in US Weekly magazine (x)

So many beautiful things about this photo…


Chuck Bass does not approve.

Chuck Bass does not approve.


emmalovestv:

I love you. 

Zuzanna and Alex | On the Set of Gossip Girl (x) My future son….

Zuzanna and Alex | On the Set of Gossip Girl (x)

My future son….


Chuck and Blair “goodbye” airport scene in 6x09

NOOOOOOO THIS CANNOT HAPPEN. NOOOO. THE WRITERS PROMISED CHAIR WAS ENDGAME! THIS ISN’T ENDGAME!


Mr & Mrs Bass

AHHHHHHHHH

signaturescarf:

signaturescarf:

guys GUYS

WEDDING FLOWERS

I see the same flowers and ribbons here

and then there’s Blair in a silver dress and tiara

So I’ve been literally

for the past few hours.

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